However, if it’s your parents you are referring to, there is plenty THEY can do to set rules and enforce them while their son lives under their roof. If it’s you and your siblings, there isn’t much you can do to teach your brother the lessons he needs to learn. GOOD WORKER IN MINNESOTAĭEAR WORKER: I wish you had been clearer about who “we” is. How can we get him to develop good work ethics? It hurts when we ask him to do something and he gets angry and starts swearing. We have tried time and time again to get him to help out.
He goes to school, comes back angry and doesn’t like to be told what to do. And while you’re doing that, ask yourself why you tolerate the disrespect you’re receiving from both of them.ĭEAR ABBY: My brother is old enough to work on the farm, but he refuses. Spend less time with him and NO time with his mother.
Ignore his comments, leave the room or the house. When your husband acts this way, don’t engage with him. Any idea how I can fight these below-the-belt punches? - DEFINITELY NOT “CRAZY”ĭEAR DEFINITELY NOT: That shouldn’t be too hard. She throws in her armchair diagnosis, which is always “schizophrenia.” My husband’s argument is an emotional one and too pervasive to enjoy time with him. It has reached the point that I think he’s character deficient. I have said, “You wish!” right back at him. I think it’s immature and immoral to take advantage of others’ bias against mental health issues.
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